Sunday, April 15, 2012


What Women want?!

An old question with lots of different answers.
There is not just ONE TYPE of WOMAN, you see...there are many kinds. Sure we can generalize and build characters who portray the majority of this or that kind of Woman but believe we are as varied as the countryside flowers on an early Spring day.

*Some Women want security in the shape of finantial and family structure to "assure" them they fit the mold. These, usually, marry and have children with men they can easily control (becoming a sad version of a police man)and have no great consideration for such things as LOVE, PASSION, FRIENDSHIP, EXCITEMENT, TRUE connection between them and "their" man. All they know is that they´re supposed to marry and procriate and they pay high prices for that picture.
Most women I know, here in Egypt, fit this cathegory.

*Other Women wish to be chased, flirted with, seduced, marvelled with their egos fed by men who know how to play the game. With or without finantial profit included. They have no wish to fit the mold society prescribes for them but they have also quit the ideal romantic of "REAL LOVE" between a man and a woman. They´re usually experienced women who have lived enough (and suffered too) in order to play with men the same way many of them play with women. Kind of sad, in their own free way.
The only ones who are allowed to act this way in Egypt are prostitutes.

*Then the third kind, VERY RARE nowadays, that actually look for the "El Dorado" of relationships. HONEST, TRUE, PASSIONATE, "Can´t live without each other" kind of LOVE. These rare species are like diamonds in an ocean of dirt. You can almost pass them by without noticing as they are transparent like the finest gems of jewelry.
Not looking for money, status, games and ego feeding sessions. They have no need to fit any mold, just the aspiration of "living happy ever after" with the man of their dreams.
In this case, children and a home are a CONSEQUENCE of a deep love and mutual understanding, NOT the GOAL of the relationship. Very often misunderstood, these WOMEN carry the flame of the ROMANTICS between their soft hands. Outcasts of hipocrisy, angels of sheets and moon light adventures we tend to read in great novels.
Gems often mistaken by common rocks by men who never held a diamond on their hands before.
They exist...you just have to open your eyes and SEE them***


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